Pre-Wedding Shoots: What You Need to Know

You might know them as engagement shoots or couple shoots, but I tend to call them pre-wedding shoots as they usually happen in the lead up to your wedding day.

They’re one of the best ways for us to get to know each other before the wedding and help you feel relaxed in front of the camera before the big day arrives. It’s almost like a practice run of wandering about and looking cute, so that on your wedding day you can absolutely nail your portraits and get back to the party.

Most couples start by telling me they feel awkward having photos taken, and almost all of them leave saying, “Wait… that was actually really fun?”

WHERE?

I love doing pre-wedding shoots in places that feel personal to you. That could be somewhere you always walk together, where one of you grew up, or just somewhere that means something to your relationship.

And if you’re not sure where to go, don’t panic. I’ve got lots of beautiful locations I can suggest depending on the kind of vibe you’re after.

WHEN?

Anytime in the 6 months leading up to your wedding day is usually the sweet spot for a pre-wedding shoot.

That way, the shoot is still fresh in your mind when the wedding rolls around, and by that point you’ll normally have most of your timings and finer details confirmed too. It means we can properly chat through how the day will flow photo-wise while we wander about taking pictures.

Another bonus? Pre-wedding shoots are super flexible. If the fabulous Scottish weather decides not to cooperate, we can simply reschedule and choose another day. You can’t control the weather on your wedding day, but you absolutely can for your pre-wedding shoot, so we may as well make the most of it!

WHO’S INVITED?

Anyone important to you is welcome, including kids, dogs and other four-legged family members!

Pre-wedding shoots are such a nice chance to get some relaxed photos together without the timeline pressure of the wedding day itself. If your dog is basically your firstborn or your kids are a huge part of your story, bring them along.

If you are planning to include little ones or pets, I’d really recommend bringing another adult too. We’ll usually start the shoot with all the family photos first, then once we’ve got those covered, they can head off for snacks, walks or a little adventure while we focus on the two of you.

It keeps things relaxed, gives everyone a better time, and means we can properly settle into the shoot without anyone worrying about entertaining the dog every five minutes (which, let’s be honest, is usually me).

WHAT DO WE WEAR?

The main thing is to wear something that feels like you and that you’re comfortable in. Whether that’s dressing up a bit or sticking to your favourite jeans and trainers, both work beautifully.

I’d recommend choosing outfits that complement each other rather than matching exactly. Neutrals are classics for a reason and tend to make photos feel really timeless, but honestly, if neon pink is your thing, we’ll absolutely make it work.

I’d avoid big logos or lots of text, as they can be a little distracting in photos. Practicality is important too, especially if we’re climbing dunes, wandering through forests or heading to the beach. If you’re uncomfortable, cold, or constantly adjusting your outfit, it’ll show.

And one very important tip from me… empty your pockets before we start. Your iPhone will give you a square bum in photos!

WHAT HAPPENS AT THE SHOOT?

Pre-wedding shoots are really relaxed. We’ll usually spend around an hour wandering about, chatting about your wedding plans, and taking photos along the way.

I’ll guide you where needed and help with all the little things people worry about, like where to stand, what to do with your hands, and how not to feel awkward in front of the camera. Nothing is overly posed or formal though. The aim is for it to feel natural and easy, more like hanging out than being in a photoshoot.

A lot of people arrive convinced they’re going to hate it. By the end, I usually get some version of “That wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be”, which is pretty great feedback from any Scottish person!

THEN WHAT?

After the shoot, I’ll send you a gallery full of beautiful photos showing just how brilliantly you nailed being in front of the camera.

You’ll be able to download the full gallery, share it with family and friends, use the photos on your wedding website or invitations, or even print a few for the big day itself.

More than anything though, the best part is arriving on your wedding day already knowing what to expect. You’ll know how I work, realise having your photo taken isn’t nearly as scary as you thought, and feel way more relaxed when it comes to portraits on the day.

By that point, I’ll feel less like a stranger with a camera and more like someone you already know, which always makes the whole experience feel easier for everyone involved.

And if nothing else, you’ll spend an hour wandering about, pissing yourselves laughing, and hopefully end up actually looking forward to the photo bit of your wedding day.